This column has come to an end! I hope what we discussed helped you learn to love yourself a bit more. And, of course, I hope it made you think a bit and challenge assumptions about fat sexuality and societal beauty standards. My goal is to enlighten and deconstruct, to help fat women empower themselves and take their body image and sexuality into their own hands. So if anyone started on the road to self-acceptance because of this column, I'm happy.
I feel like talking loudly about fat sexuality is important, and I hope you're interested in keeping this dialogue going, whether with other fat women or just with yourself. I want to work towards changing societal beauty standards and then eliminate them. I want society, or at the very least the FA community, to recognize that choosing to be fat is as valid as the claims of innocence. I want fat women everywhere to enjoy their bodies and learn what pleasure they can bring. I want to untangle fat from health. And I want you to do it with me.
It's doubtful that this column alone will be revolutionary, of course. It's just one voice. But if all fat people, not just women, start singing the same song, I think we can move mountains. And not just mountains of flesh. With time and persistence, eventually the revolution will come, whether or not it's in my lifetime. But I hope I get to see the day when being fat is just as valid as being thin, when fat sex is not met with "eww, keep it indoors," and when our paragons of beauty come in all shapes and sizes.
If you're interested in reading more, you can check out my blog, also called Sex and the Fat Girl. You can find me on Twitter as @thefiercestgirl and on Facebook. Also, if you'd like you can check out the archives of my old blog at Red Vinyl Shoes.
Keep in touch, and thank you for supporting this column. Much love.